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All I'm saying is that this guy is actually on to something. I don't think there's any offensive language here, but I do think that's it's good advice both in the affirmative sense (that is: what to do if you're trying) and the negative sense (that is: what to avoid if you're not trying).

Because this is who we are as men. Let's be honest about that and just ask for help in keeping between the ditches.